i need to get tangled in you, and forget that there’s a world outside our door.
raine cooper
i need to get tangled in you, and forget that there’s a world outside our door.
raine cooper
Anonymous asked:
instructor144 answered:
Getting back in the life is always scary after you’ve been burned. So you take your time, you vet, you keep your wits about you, you beware of sub frenzy, and you approach it as a relationship possibility.
daddyspainslut26 asked:
instructor144 answered:
Followers, I know a lot of you have dealt with this.
I started on Tumblr soon after it was created with a vanilla blog. Since then, hardly a day has gone by that Tumblr wasn’t a part of my life. I have made excellent friends on Tumblr over the years. In fact, MOST of my friends came from relationships I made via Tumblr. The precious, bubbly cupcake that is in my bed? Tumblr. So you can imagine how painful Tumblr’s announcement has been for me.
I love seeing the marginalized communities that are shunned elsewhere on Planet Earth have a safe place to exist and be themselves. It always made me smile when I see a Tumblr blogger ease out of their shells, steadfastly into the world.
Well, that shit is no more.
As some of you may have noticed I started a community effort to rescue these communities. I want everyone involved because it will be our garden, our club, our safe space to be ourselves.
And the new site (name to be withheld until we have something to show) is not just for kinksters, I want vanillas too; artists, witches, horror writers, brewmeisters, budtenders, book sluts, fandoms of all types, beat poets, wilderness photographers, Burners, vampire hunters, Dungeons and Dragons players, and rocket scientists. Hell, I want people who just want to blog about cats and cabins in the woods.
What we won’t tolerate are bullies, minors, Nazis (and their fucked up allies), abusers or trolls. They can fuck right off to a cesspool of their choice.
I am putting up the cash to get this started PLUS I am making this a community effort, that is why I am being so transparent about the process with our Discord planning group. Yes, it is chaos. We have taken on an INSANE project to get done in less than 2 weeks. Well, 9 days now.
This isn’t my first rodeo. I am actively trying to keep my anonymity as long as I can, but I know it will soon be spugged out in due order soon. You will then see what I have done in the past and learn about a very vanilla project that has been near and dear to my heart. You have probably heard of it and maybe even participated!
The beta site will not be perfect. It will be good but not perfect. Hell, we have been suffering with “far from perfect” with Tumblr now for years. It is my hope that our community can put up with our rough edges for a little while.
Where we are tonight is pretty good. We have selected a host, got our software loaded, installed the Linux packages required and are now getting those packages to play nice with one another. We had it working for a bit until a small issue with the registration page required some elbow work.
I am working on the branding and marketing with a bunch of really smart pervs in our Discord group. I am really proud of all of our volunteers and want to thank them all.
If you want to volunteer or simply eat popcorn and watch the porn riots, please use this invite link: https://discord.gg/jVempgb
Remember, Discord is just the site we are using for planning, not the actual site we are moving to.
Many of you have asked about the Library For Kinksters, it will be archived and placed on the now site.
We plan to allow you to import your Tumblr blog over to our new site but Tumblr may have other ideas. Other services have been using Tumblr’s API for exporting and now Tumblr now seems to be shutting down that API functionality.
That is all for now. Keep your heads held high and remember you are ALL FUCKING AMAZING PEOPLE!
- Dominant Life
P.S. Please reblog the shit out of this. Santa may drop a slutty elf off at your house for Christmas!
P.P.S. Oh and pirates. I really want pirates on the site too!
Anonymous asked:
instructor144 answered:
I don’t think it’s a matter of the “feminization” of men, rather what I see in the world today is the infantilization of our young men. I see them every day, droves of them, trudging around in the lobby of my office building, slope-shouldered in their sensible suits and shiny shoes, K-12 backpacks slung over both shoulders. All with the same demeanor and the same way of carrying themselves. It would be easy to blame them, or their parents, but that’s just intellectual laziness. I blame the fact that we have, with the best of intentions, built a society where they never face any challenges, a space where they never get to experience failure, a world where they never have their ass handed to them. Such conditions are not conducive to evolving from a boy-child to a man.
‘We’re the middle children of the history, no purpose or place, we have no Great war, no Great depression, our great war is a spiritual war, our great depression is our lives, we’ve been all raised by television to believe that one day we’d all be millionaires and movie gods and rock stars, but we won’t and we’re slowly learning that fact …”
Anonymous asked:
instructor144 answered:
You were disrespected by both of them. And now you need to decide if there is anything left to salvage in your relationship.
Anonymous asked:
instructor144 answered:
Yeah, it’s a glitch. Hit Follow anyway, and you’ll see my stuff on your dash.
Anonymous asked:
instructor144 answered:
I know exactly what it feels like, please believe that. We’ll all be here after Dec 17, and you are not alone.
Anonymous asked:
instructor144 answered:
Fetlife seems to be a good place for people to connect and enjoy kink without a lot of strings.
Anonymous asked:
instructor144 answered:
It may well be uncomfortable. But every moment the sub is wearing it, they are definitely mindful that they are doing it for their Dom. Which helps to give them peace and calmness.
My thoughts get the best of me, what can I say?
